Did you know when we don’t let others help and support us we actually rob them of the ‘joy of giving back”. Think about it – you probably enjoy helping others and feel good when you can make a difference for them. But when we don’t let others help us we actually prevent them from feeling good about Giving and Making a Difference?
Are you more of a giver or a receiver! Do you know how to balance giving and receiving in your life? A secret ingredient to having an extraordinary relationship is knowing, how to do both. One of the best gifts I ever gave myself was falling in love with coaching and mentoring. About 15 years ago, I hired my first Life Coach and I was amazed at how much inner transformation I received! I found the courage and strength to find the right coach and the right program for what I needed. Then I had to develop a trusting relationship with my new coach, which required me to allow my coach to give support, strength and guidance. I am glad I did! I have changed some much by being supported and encouraged!
Sometimes, it can be tough for us to let others in. Sometimes it difficult to be brutally honest with others and ourselves. Where are you at with letting others support you, guide you and assist you in the areas that you need help the most? How about with little things and BIG things?
Where in your life do you want to ask for more help? Where in your life would you love to feel supported? Who can you ask that you believe will give you a positive response? Sometimes it’s a family member, friend, spouse, co-worker or a trusted coach. It doesn’t really matter as long as you remember to allow others to support you more often!
Oh yea – never ever never forget, that the Universe is always patiently waiting to love you more, adore you more and support you more; whenever you are ready, willing and remember to ask with belief.
Have an awesome week! Here is a little challenge for you; allow yourself to feel amazing by allowing others to support today and ALL week!
Much Healing, Light and Love
Dr. Mary Oz
